Care Work Is the Next Feminist Frontier

Women are being impoverished, knocked out of the labor force, or working themselves to death caring for others — because that’s ‘just what women do’

Jude Ellison S. Doyle
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6 min readSep 5, 2019

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TThe work of caring for someone is not natural. No one is born knowing how to do it; no group of people naturally excels at it. In point of fact, care work, with its focus on mess and need and domestic tedium, is often hard, and very unpleasant; it’s not something people do without a compelling reason.

We need to state all of this up front, because — here in the Year of Our Lord 2019 — we are finally having a conversation about our society’s obligation to support the child care workers, home health aides, and family members who have to perform this work. These people are often marginalized, exploited, and, in all cases, desperately underpaid. This is because nearly all of them are women, and they’re doing work that we think women “naturally” want to do.

We would rather believe that women are simply tenderhearted creatures, born knowing how to wipe noses and make recalcitrant toddlers take their medicine.

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Jude Ellison S. Doyle
GEN
Writer for

Author of “Trainwreck” (Melville House, ‘16) and “Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers” (Melville House, ‘19). Columns published far and wide across the Internet.