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Don’t Force Your Kids to Hug Their Relatives Over the Holidays

Teaching children that they have to endure unwanted touching is a mistake

Jessica Valenti
GEN
Published in
4 min readNov 27, 2019

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Illustration: Eliot Wyatt

WWhen my daughter Layla was three years old, a woman in line behind us at the grocery store leaned over and caressed her head and hair, cooing about how cute she was. Layla quickly batted her hand…

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Jessica Valenti
GEN
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Feminist author & columnist. Native NYer, pasta enthusiast.