It’s All Tribalism, Son

Ted Bauer
GEN
Published in
3 min readNov 13, 2021

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What we generally know: in the U.S. at least, there’s a sharp decline in religion. Religion definitely isn’t for everyone, but it’s a way of social organization and community building, for sure. By some measure, 75% of American adults don’t really know any of their neighbors. Many white-collar jobs have been working from home, or periodically to often from home, for close to two years now — and service/retail/hospitality/etc. jobs that had to be in-person? Those people are now quitting in droves. There’s also a belief and some research to say that the American notion of family is in decline, with David Brooks arguing during early COVID that “the nuclear family was a mistake.” We also know that Americans, despite generally-OK quality of life comparative to the rest of the world, are largely a bunch of nervous wrecks. And finally, perhaps, we know that social isolation is on the rise — it was before COVID, and it certainly is since COVID. COVID, if anything, made us more insular.

If you look above, then, a number of different institutions and social constructs that kinda “held together” American lives for 50+ years, if not longer, many are in decline. I’m not saying America is a bad place or anything; I still live here and probably am not leaving anytime soon. But many of the glue mechanisms of social structure seem to be somewhat eroding like an old bridge, and what’s going to replace that?

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Ted Bauer
GEN

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.