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Not Everyone Will Get Through This

Those optimistic platitudes ignore the very real disparities this virus is exposing

Jessica Valenti
GEN
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3 min readApr 7, 2020

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AsAs we march through another month of a national pandemic, over 10,000 people in the United States have already died and our hospitals are bursting at the seams. New York politicians are even talking about temporarily burying the dead, who can no longer fit in city morgues, in the parks.

So I am really going to need people to stop saying that we’ll get through this because not everyone has — and in all likelihood, tens of thousands more won’t either. We’re also not all in this together; especially when it’s becoming clearer by the day that too many Americans are more concerned with their individual happiness and desires than the collective good.

So perhaps we can dispense with the ridiculous optimism. Sometimes reality is miserable, and we need to allow ourselves to grieve.

After all, platitudes about our collective national strength aren’t going to deliver more ventilators to New York City or make nurses feel any better about wearing trash bags in lieu of adequate protective gear.

The sentiment that everything will be just fine in the end is particularly infuriating coming from the people who stand to lose the…

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Jessica Valenti
GEN
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Feminist author & columnist. Native NYer, pasta enthusiast. I write about abortion every day at abortioneveryday.com