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The Ones Who Got Away: Kavanaugh and the Weight Women Carry

The latest allegations against the Supreme Court justice serve as a stark reminder that for powerful men, accountability is rarely an issue

Jessica Valenti
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4 min readSep 16, 2019

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WWomen’s lives are littered with the ones who got away: The stranger who flashed you on the subway when you were 12 years old. The homeroom teacher who asked you out the day you graduated high school. The boyfriend who “had sex” with you while you were passed out drunk. The men who get to go on with their lives as if nothing happened, while you’re left grappling with the weight of their bad behavior — a weight that gets progressively heavier over the years as you meet more and more of these men.

I thought about this weight that women shoulder over the weekend, when reporters at the New York Times confirmed what feminists have been saying for a year: Brett Kavanaugh is a likely sexual abuser whose confirmation to the Supreme Court was rushed through without a thorough — or even adequate — investigation.

The article, an excerpt from Robin Pogrebin and Kate Kelly’s upcoming book The Education of Brett Kavanaugh, alleges that not only was Christine Blasey Ford’s accusation of sexual assault credible, but so was was Deborah Ramirez’s…

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Jessica Valenti
Jessica Valenti

Written by Jessica Valenti

Feminist author & columnist. Native NYer, pasta enthusiast. I write about abortion every day at abortioneveryday.com

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