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We Can’t Afford Another 4 Years of ‘Me Me Me’ Politics

Now more than ever, we need to embrace giving a shit about other people

Jessica Valenti
GEN
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3 min readJan 6, 2021

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Meghan McCain on “The View.” Photo: Lou Rocco/ABC/Getty Images

Earlier this week, amid the usual barrage of dystopian headlines, I was treated to a rare and unexpected bit of good news: television host and new mom Meghan McCain pushing for paid parental leave on The View. “We are the only developing nation that doesn’t supply women with paid family leave,” said McCain, who has until now remained silent on the issue. “We as conservatives have to come together and allow all women in this country, no matter where they’re from or their socioeconomic class, the capacity to have what I just had.”

She’s right to point out that it’s hypocritical for America to claim to be a country that cares about “family values” while denying the most basic support to women who have just given birth. But it’s frustrating that it took having a child herself for McCain to come out in support of something that feminists have been ringing the alarm about for decades.

And as the era of Trump ends — four years marked by egotism and selfishness — it raises a bigger question: Why are so many Americans unsympathetic to a particular issue until it affects them directly?

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Jessica Valenti
GEN
Writer for

Feminist author & columnist. Native NYer, pasta enthusiast. I write about abortion every day at abortioneveryday.com