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Young Women on Dating and Feminism in America

The weirdness of dating as a young feminist woman in America

Illustration: Jeannie Phan

“D“Dating is super weird,” Amelia*, a 25-year-old Barnard College graduate who’s partial to the phrase “men are trash,” tells me. “I loathe it, but I don’t know if I hate it because I’m looking for a specific type of person who’s not that common —…




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Jen Doll

Jen Doll

Jen Doll is a freelance journalist as well as the author of the young adult novel Unclaimed Baggage and the memoir Save the Date.

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